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Little Miss Kickball promotes fun, friends,
teamwork
Patiently answering a constantly ringing
telephone and fielding a string of questions
from students, staff and visitors, Shirley
Boyd did not give the impression of a
pioneer in women's sports.
But nearly three decades ago, the
receptionist at Flour Bluff High School and
a few friends started one of the most
successful recreation programs for girls in
South Texas. From its grass-roots beginning,
Little Miss Kickball has continued to
flourish during an era of mushrooming
athletic opportunities for women.
Acting on her 10-year-old daughter, Cheri's,
desire to have a sports activity of her own,
Boyd, Barbara Miesen and Marty Caldwell
started a program that has grown to 18
leagues statewide and involves nearly 5,000
girls.
``We came up with kickball because it was a
sport the girls were already familiar with
in elementary school,'' Boyd said. ``Also,
it was something all girls could play
without having outstanding athletic talent.
My youngest daughter (Lori) started at 4,
and she's now playing in women's leagues.''
Cheri Boyd died of cancer several years ago,
but her memory is honored every year with a
tournament and a scholarship. Her sister,
Lori, was the first scholarship recipient.
Boyd and the sport's players, parents and
officials give an almost simplistic
explanation for the program's success:
Kickball creates an environment where girls
can have fun while developing the life
skills of friendship, teamwork and
sportsmanship.
``All three of my daughters were in the
program,'' Boyd said. ``It's something the
girls feel is their own - a place for them
to have fun. The first year (1970), we took
girls between the ages of 8 and 15. We
finished registration with 24 girls - we
needed 30 for three teams - so we went out
and recruited some others. The teams were
the Doves, Sandpipers and Penguins.''
The Laguna Little Miss Kickball League
played its first few seasons on vacant land
that is now the parking lot for the Flour
Bluff High School gym. It has since moved to
a Waldron Field location with 19 teams and
about 190 girls.
``We didn't have any money, so we had to
make everything ourselves,'' Boyd said. ``I
remember we tried to make our own bases.
First we tried sand, but it leaked out.
Then, pinto beans. We put them in a shed,
but they got wet and started to grow.
Everything was a struggle. If it hadn't been
for the parents, we wouldn't have made it.''
Boyd and her fellow founders codified a
playground game that seemed to have as many
rule variations as players.
``We contacted colleges and associations,
but there weren't any standardized rules,''
Boyd said. ``We started the first year with
17 rules, mainly designed to control the
kicking and pitching of the ball. Now, we
have a complete rule book.''
There are 18 leagues in seven Texas cities
operating under the Little Miss Kickball
International name.
Robert Panky, a sports psychologist and
associate professor of kinesiology at Texas
A&M-Corpus Christi, is not surprised by the
sport's popularity.
``Most of the Little League-type programs
are very beneficial for both small males and
small females,'' Panky said. ``The emphasis
should be teaching developmental skills and
having fun, and kickball is a very good
activity for that.''
Panky said the biggest problem for junior
programs was the introduction of adult
values not shared by the kids.
``The concerns need to be with the
development of the individual, not
winning,'' he said. ``Research on junior
sports shows that adults are concerned with
the kids having fun, learning sportsmanship,
skills and winning. However, the kids say
they just want to have fun and be a member
of a group. There is no mention of
winning.''
Panky also said youth recreation programs
were growing because of parents' concern for
the safety of their children.
``It's a safe, supervised environment,''
Panky said. ``The days are long gone when
parents feel comfortable sending their
children off to unsupervised playgrounds.''
The comments of Little Miss Kickball players
echo Panky's remarks. Jennifer Walden, who
plays for the Oso League, said, ``It's a
place where girls can be themselves and have
fun.''
``It's fun like a family,'' said Melissa
Bernal, of the Southside League. ``It's a
really understanding place for girls. You
can develop self-esteem, confidence and
leadership skills while having a good
time.''
Melanie Trent, of Southside offered: ``It's
about having friends. Winning just comes out
here.''
Laguna League parent Carol Sutton, who has
three daughters in the program, adds, ``It's
an all-girl thing. These kids live for
kickball season.''
Tina Saenz, a past Little Miss Kickball
International president, admits that many
conversations about her sport include the
question, ``What is the enduring quality
that perpetuates kickball and lifts it above
playground peers?''
``The answer we get from the girls is that
it's a sport that's never been taken away by
UIL (University Interscholastic League)
competition,'' said Saenz, who lives in
Alice. ``It's a sport open to any girl from
(age) 6 to 18. In kickball, everybody gets
to play at least three innings every game.
It's a game where the girls can choose to be
as aggressive as they want to be.''
Unlike scholastic sports, the Little Miss
Kickball program straddles the line between
being a recreational outlet and a
competitive sport. There is no drive to win
at all cost, no compulsory attendance rules,
no in-your-face confrontations between
coaches and players. There are no outside
standards such as academic regulations
limiting competition, and no overt ridicule
of less-talented players by fans, rivals or
teammates.
``The skill levels of the players differ
drastically,'' said Marianne Mojica,
Southside League president. ``We have some
fantastic athletes from Carroll High School
in our program, and Oso has the same
situation with King. They come here like
everybody else to have fun.''
Mojica started in the Southside program at
the age of 7 and has been involved with the
league for 27 of its 28 years. The league's
four-field complex on McArdle Road is named
after her father, Jerry Smith.
The four-field Oso playing complex on Ennis
Joslin Road is named after Inez Cofer, who
still coaches in the junior division (ages 9
to 11) where she feels she can have the most
positive influence on her players'
development.
``It's a game that any little girl can
play,'' Cofer said. ``I've been here 26
years. The biggest reward is teaching the
girls. Don't get me wrong, I want to win.
But the teaching is the important thing.
Teaching them how to win and lose, and how
to get along with others. From kickball,
they learn, `This I can do myself.'
Dorsey Shedd, who has enjoyed Little Miss
Kickball as both a junior and as an adult
player and coach, places a different spin on
its popularity.
``There is a sense of nostalgia with this
sport like there is for baseball,'' Shedd
said. ``There's an emotional element to it,
and the girls are drawn to the
competition.''
Mike Gwyn, president of the Oso League,
which celebrated its 25th anniversary last
year, stressed the game's social value.
``It brings together girls from all
different backgrounds,'' Gwyn said. ``It's a
big thing in the kids' lives. I'll start
getting calls shortly after Christmas each
year from girls asking if it's getting time
to play.''
Organizers are proud of the program's
ability to retain its players despite
widening opportunities for girls in soccer,
fast-pitch softball, Little League baseball,
basketball and volleyball.
``Girls will leave (kickball) to try a new
program, but they seem to return to
kickball,'' Saenz said.
``I've tried basketball and jump rope,''
said Madison Mojica. ``But our whole family
does this (kickball). It's fun and I seem to
have a lot more friends out here.''
Kickball involves a rubber playground ball
put in play by kicking instead of batting.
On elementary school playgrounds, it has
nearly as many different rules as players.
But in Little Miss Kickball, the rules are
uniform, with statutes governing kicking,
pitching and fielding.
Little Miss Kickball offers competition on
four levels - pee wee (ages 6-8), junior
(9-11), senior (12-14) and teen-age (15-18).
Like most junior athletic programs, the
sport becomes faster and more sophisticated
as girls move up the competitive ladder.
Practice begins in March, with the season
usually opening by April 1. The regular
season schedule, which extends into June,
includes league games and tournaments
matching teams from various leagues. The
program concludes with a state tournament,
pairing All-star teams from the different
leagues, during the July 4 weekend.
The Little Miss Kickball rules are more
sophisticated than playground statutes. For
example, in Little Miss Kickball, kickers
cannot call their pitches. In playground
variations, players are allowed to request
that pitchers roll the ball to them in a
certain way - such as ``slow rollies'' or
``fast bouncies.''
Also, instead of taking a thunderous running
approach from the backstop to kick the
pitch, Little Miss Kickball players must
kick from within a circle. This rule places
the program's 125-foot outfield fences in
proportion to the kicking ability of the
players. Pitchers must deliver the ball from
a defined pitching area to the plate, where
an umpire calls balls and strikes. Various
dimensions of the playing field - such as
the size of the kicking circle and distance
between kicker and pitcher - are dictated by
age group.
``This isn't as easy a game as many men and
boys think,'' said Shedd, the senior Cosmos
coach and former Little Miss Kickball
player. ``If they tried it (with our rules),
they would find it much tougher than they
think.''
One major element of playground Americana
remains. Defensive players can gun down
runners on the base paths by hitting them
with a thrown ball. Of course, this tactic
also was legal in 19th century baseball.
Games last six innings, with 10 players on
the field at a time. The players must
furnish their own rubber-cleated shoes, but
receive caps, T-shirts and shorts bearing
team names and sponsors. The umpiring,
coaching and concession stand staffs and
ground crews are all volunteers. The average
field hosts two games a night. The stands
are filled with parents, other relatives,
friends and boyfriends.
``Everything in Little Miss Kickball is
voluntary,'' Mojica said. ``The facilities
were built by volunteers. It's hard to find
people who have the time to a devote to a
project like this. Many of us spend 40 hours
a week out here in addition to our full-time
jobs.''
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